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Unfulfilled expectations and broken hearts.. Some of us have had this experience in life .

So many foreigners who visit Ukraine to meet future wife have to come back home without any results. Or even worse when being in love with a beautiful lady who does not share the same feelings and behaves as a consumer or a demander.. Why do foreigners get so fast into this trouble ? I will lead out the core of the problem into this post..

When you arrive in Ukraine you easily “go crazy” from so many beauties walking down street salone or sitting in restaurants or bars smiling and feeling like to meet new people . There are many different activities in Kiev with a big number of beauties. After seeing all this you will probably get lost meeting new ladies every day and cannot stop seeing them just because you are eager to see a better one than yesterday . And it will continue right up to the day you have to leave for home.


When you get back home, none of all those beauties contact you. No message or even a sms. Again you are feeling lonely no one likes to invest time on correspondence with you..


To build a relationship there must be a huge interest to get to know a person as this requires spending energy and time. And now there’s an important question - Why do you think that the lady you met in a restaurant or bar would be willing to spend energy on you ??? Only because of a couple of dates together and she looked happy enough and smiled to you ?? She simply spent a good time as she was in a particular place for that … bar , café , restaurant , places where people entertain themselves.. no other goals.. So don’t expect from a woman you’re entertaining to take some serious steps towards you as it seems quite logical..


When you arrive in Ukraine you and start your dating the most important thing is to select a person with high priorities to create a serious relationship. What does it mean ? It means you will not find your future lady in any entertainment places or accidentally on a street.. your chances are equal like you playing in a casino . Unless you live in Ukraine for a longer period of time . In this case you have more chances to meet a nice lady, but still it depends where you go to meet them.


It is very important to know what are your clear expectations from a trip to Ukraine.

Vacation ? - means entertainment .. So enjoy your time in Kiev but don’t be sad because no serious relationship comes up. .


A trip on purpose to meet a wife? -Don’t go straight to bars to look for ladies... you’d better go to a bar with your future life partner and enjoy time there together..


If you go on a trippurposely and you have a clear goal to find a life parter in the most appropriate place for this – Marriage Agencies . In a good marriage agency ladies have to fill in an application form and take interview for registration and show documents as the representative of agency takes responsibility .They have to know what people they take to the database they offer then.


Some agencies charge ladies .. in this case if you meet someone and she will spend with you a couple of dates to get to know you it means she is interested  and your meetings can lead to a great common future...


But I know well, even you understand this and after reading all my posts you still will go to discos and will stare on younger girls in a super short dress with a deep cannot do anything with them, it’s nature and this is totally normal , that means that you are healthy.

Believe in marriage agencies there are beauties that really exist you just need to spend more time to find her and the intention of the lady will be serious and this is the most important thing to create a relationship.


Visiting discos this is deal of one day when you are surrounded by beauties - No agencies in between all is free of cost . Only you and girls... but nothing good will happen with this...Don't waste your precious time trying your luck .


My advice is before planning your visit to Kiev, find a Marriage Agency beforehand. Make all you meetings fixed before you are arriving. For this you need to send them your photos and information about you . So they can start spreading your profile to a data.. and schedule meeting for time of your arrival.


If that is possible ask the Marriage Agency to introduce you to ladies via Skype before you fly down to Kiev . That is super to get to know a person, communicate and come closer to each other before a real meeting... and my dear friend here’s a very important info for you – if ladies tell that she doesn’t have a Skype or time to Skype you before you visit, that means she is not much interested in you and time investing in relationship ...that is a bad sign...broken heart I’ve seen many cases of ladies who were interested in men, they even took 2 hours off work in order to go online for a Skype meeting.. as her intentions are serious..


Before you visit to Ukraine, arrange your meetings + Skype calls..

Do not be tempted by a meeting at a disco or bars..or some meetings by chance on a street.. Focus on a lady with high priorities to create a relationship in this particular time..


I could make this post too long .. but I don’t like talking about problems as I prefer talking about the solution and happiness.. I would be glad to analyse your situation and give the best advice .. any of us have point A and like to arrive to point B , so I have to know what is your point A to tell how to arrive to point B with less loss.


I welcome anyone who’s dreaming to find a future wife in Ukraine for free online Skype consultation for 1 hour . For booking your time email me on


Wish you a great day !

Your professional dating coach , Katrin

Protect yourself from scammers

Dating business is currently one of the biggest and the most profitable markets in the world. There’s even more than you can imagine. Some of online dating websites spend more than a million dollars on google advertising per year..

Anyone of us even have once tried some of those websites or will try in the future so it is better for you to read the following information ..

Most of the websites that you can find online offer correspondent access and have thousands of single beautiful ladies and all of them look hot and sexy . Any man would like to meet a girl like them and create a relationship with such a great, hot girl.


After your subscribing for correspondence, you will daily receive letters and you will start correspondence with a nice lady that may give you a feeling that you have known her for all your life and she will become the closest person to you.


Passion stories along with fantastic photos will get you emotionally attached with this girl and you will spend 40 % of your time dreaming about her and your common future together.


Well .. all this romantic story will land you in a big frustration if-


  • She doesn’t have Skype so you cannot talk to you .         

  • She doen’t speak English well as being shy to talk to you .    

  • Doesn’t have time to talk to you on Skype or phone as she is at work most of the time and at home there’s no internet access .    

  • She doen’t have PC so she cannot use Skype.         

  • In the evening she comes home tired so her phone is off.         

  • She refuses to give you her home address or land line phone .     


If you have any of these points that happen to you so it means that you receive letters not from that lady you expect to be with.

On video beloved of Mr Angelo from Italy and Mr Jon from the USA sharing experience about websites with correspondent services .



Correspondent websites’ goal is to sell you services where you can leave as much money as you can so that will take all the efforts to motivate you to stay with them much longer.

But you have to realise this as soon as possible ..and make correct actions in finding life partner.

I hope you understand that sending money for a flight ticket to a person with whom you’re exchanging letters is not a wise step at all. When you’re going to arrange a real meeting you have to speak with a lady on Skype during some period of time and build common trust together.




There are a lot of websites with real persons as well but not where you have to pay for each letter or pay contact details separately. Most of real girls in case if she’d like to know you better she will pleasantly exchange with you her phones or Skype to get to know you better without long typing letters.


Dear gentlemen, yes, there are many nice women in Ukraine who really look for a life partner and really desire to have a good man alongside .. and you can be also lucky to meet her online but be careful and use the info I place for you above.


Wishing you a great and successful research.

Your professional dating coach , Katrin.


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Expectations and illusions are your enemies.

This post will be interesting for foreign men who already found nice ladies online and the communication via Skype seems very nice and comfortable..

They have never met in real life, but are looking forward to meeting each other soon… The following problems can arise and crash dream relationships . In front of my eyes broke up 3 beautiful couples via this reason and I would like to prevent you from this....

Daily Skype communication builds common trust, friendship and respect … Before you travel from another country or cross the Globe to meet your lady, online calls via Skype help you be sure than you will meet someone real and a suitable person .. and probably she may be a good partner to share life with you.


When a couple starts online communication with respect and good friendship there is also a growing feeling.. First you like the lady very much and after somehow starts your being in love .. with love comes a feeling of possessiveness which brings another picture to communication..


A man can be easily in love and emotionally attached to a virtual person only existing in his imagination.

This is the reason why dating websites earn millions and millions of dollars .. they offer romantic letters and beautiful pictures of nice ladies for the man and he is ready to pay for it in the long term.. because he becomes in love via correspondence ..


A woman will not fall in love with you via just Skype or correspondence . You will never receive any romantic letters from Ukrainian women as we don’t express our feelings on websites or through emails.. Ukrainian women and most of the women in the world expect a real man being beside them and after that her feeling will start growing...


Men and women are so different creatures ...we don’t even look like too much..
When a man doen’t have a reciprocal feeling he thinks that she is not interested in relationships or she doesn’t like him much .


The most common missunderstanding comes when she continues living her daily life like going to the gym and spending time with friends - a man already feels that she is his future wife and all her spare time belongs to him.


He already has the expectation and probability in his mind and he already plans a common family and thinks about their first kid’s name.


At the same stage woman’s imagination is up to the day when they will meet in real life.. she doesn’t have any expectation yet and takes you as a good person with whom she would like to meet and maybe tries thinking even more .. She doesn’t have any feeling and cannot have as this is how God created a woman.



So what to do and how to behave ?

That is very good that you like the person with whom you are communicating it will motivate you to travel far from home to meet her in real life..


1. Don’t delay your meeting in real life as a lady can lose interest ( no one likes to talk all time with a computer only )

2 Dont be sad or angry if she doesn’t feel in love with you like you do .. especially when you send facebook status that you are a couple in relationship, because she will not except it.

3 Dont expect that all her spare time she will dedicate for online calls with you or messages to you all day.

4 Dont express jealousy if she is seeing a friend and comes back late home . ( you will not ably to control another person and better do not spoil some good thoughts which can come true in a future )

5 She will not sit at home and wait when you fly to Ukraine , you will always be a person on PC, before you meet her in real life

You can say that “ I will fly so far and I have to be sure that the person is serious and not looking to have fan only”.
But you dont have another option my dear ,if you would like to met the lady from another country and build relationships you must fly ..

Many men even do not have opportunities to see the lady via Skype and still travel to Ukraine .So please don't secure yourself this way.


If someone spends hours to talk to you online means she has serious intentions.. and this is a reason to make a second step and arrange a real meeting.

After the real meeting when she in love with you -this is a different story . The lady will be more focused on you and common future. .


Sometimes there is a misunderstanding when a man acts the same way as to a woman from his own country and expects the same reaction…  Distance between countries makes a lot of difference and culture brings a big impact on the behaviour..


Ukrainian ladies are very honest and serious in relationships, very dedicated to the man .. but all this you will feel in real life but not online ..



I wish you to find your dream relationships from Ukraine soon .
Your professional dating coach , Katrin.