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What are the most common mistakes made by 85% foreigners while searching for a Ukrainian bride?

With my 6-year-experience in helping to build relationship between a foreign man and Ukrainian woman, I can explain many important issues one must know. If you want to find a  ukraininan bride  the only way to do it is Internet. You will start signing up with many different russian and ukrainian  dating websites and spend hours in surfing profiles of ladies and long fruitless correspondence with fake accounts of non-existing girls.

Working as a dating couch for  I’ve met so many people who have been spending more than 5 month on correspondence and got frustrated on a first meeting in real life or they have never had a meeting with the lady they were writing to.

Time, airplane tickets, accommodations, and the trip to Russia or Ukraine  itself waste time and money.

We live in the advanced times - all of us have Skype. This program will help you to communicate with the beautiful  ukrainian or russian  lady you’ve selected and  talk to her face-to-face online. You can see how lady is laughing her knowledge of English, what kind questions she asks you and what is her reaction on all the information you share.

If you like a lady via Skype you will like her in a real life as well. This is not a real meeting but this is about 95% close to it.

Before you come to Kiev ( Ukraine ) in order to meet anyone,you have to make sure that this particular person is really for you and she is wants you to make some real steps for building serious relationship.

If a lady tells you that she doesn’t have Skype or she is so busy and can’t talk to you or makes some other excuses -it means that she is NOT interested in you and please don’t waste your time even if she has amazing photos and looks hot like super model .

When woman is interested in a man or when she’s seriously searching for dating  man to start a relationship she will find some time to talk with a chosen man.. If not, it means it is not her life priority or she did nor sellect you. sad

So you have to focus only on those ladies (probably it is only 5% of the entire large database on a dating website) who are real ones and want to talk to you online (if you are from Turkey or some Arab country,Ukrainian lady will not go online with you, sorrydevil).

Family with Ukrainian woman is a perfect model of your happy family life. Try to get to know a lady and you will be pleasantly surprised how close a person can be even living in another country. You won’t feel that big destance  between both of you...

What do Ukrainian ladies expect from a man during the first meeting? Why do Ukrainian ladies look for a foreign man?

I will explain it to youin details very soon in my next post.

I hope that I could help you today

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Why are Ukrainian ladies looking for a foreign man?

Why don’t Ukrainian ladies want to marry a local Ukrainian man, if they are so beautiful and family-oriented? Do they want to relocate to another country or are they gold-diggers? I get a lot of suspicions and same questions from all my clients  and subscribers. Well, there are several reasons that are not common for other European countries.

In my country there are more women than men. For 1 man there are 8 beautiful, educated and family-oriented women and this is not a joke.

With such an abundance of females, Ukrainian men aren’t much worried that they’ll be left alone also they aren’t in a hurry for official marriage and kids.

Women understand this big competition and try to be more attractive in men’s eyes: wear high heels, feminine dresses, make up, do a lot of sports and diet...
If she wants to have a man who is better than average one - she must look like a model - the way all that profiles on dating websites look like – they seen to be a brochure of some beauty contest :).

But not only appearance is the right tool in order to have a good man, Ukrainian lady makes a lot for the relationship, forgives and understands her man. She tries to be good and caring love partner.
Ukrainian man accustoms to such behavior and accepts it as normal. Soon he becomes spoilt.

Foreigner men who ever try relationship with lady from Ukraine want to date a Ukrainian woman only.

When lady registers at a Marriage Agency, she doesn’t have a goal to receive a passport of another country and relocate forever for a better life. She already has a good life in her own country, her family,friends, all relatives, good memories, etc.

Usually women sacrifice all these things and relations to meet a secure, family-oriented man, who will love and respect her and treat her like a woman.

You don’t even  how hard it is to change lifestyle and be far away from her family and friends in a totally different new country with new people and traditions and sometimes even other religion.

When such girl registered  with a Marriage Agency, she is open for more opportunities to meet a life partner for relationship and family.

Even if you will be from India or Pakistan she will follow you if she loves you. Yes, Ukrainian woman is capable of true love and deserves a good man.

So if you ever decide to meet a life partner from Ukraine this is a very good choice.
But you need to know some of behavior  differences for successful relationship and I will help you with this with my posts at this blog.

What doesUkrainian lady expect from a man on a first meeting? Whatare the mistakes made by non-Ukrainian men? I’ll explain itin my next post.

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What does Ukrainian lady expect from a man on a first meeting?

What are the mistakes made by non-Ukrainian men? Yes, Ukrainian ladies have cultural differences in comparison to woman from Europe. I can say that Ukrainian girls are very feminine and sensual. Feminism or freedom aren’tof top life-priority for them. They are looking for a strong knight who will lead their relationship and family. The knightis looking for a beautiful feminine lady with long hair wearing a dress and high heels. So if you are reading this letter,it means that you are a knight in your life-style and you’re looking for a real woman.

Ukrainian lady is one good example to be a woman of your dreams.
In the next paragraph I’ll explain what they expect from a man at the first meeting.

So, you’ve arrived in Kievfor 10 days with several contact details of women you want to meet. You are full of happiness and anticipation to meet all of them.
Some tips you have to know, what can be a stop-sign for the lady to meet you for the second time.

When you’re calling to fix the time and location for a date, please, don’t say
• “Let’s meet for a cup of coffee”.

Lady will think that you don’t want to make more time to meet her and you want to see her only for about 15 minutes. She will think that you’ve planned meeting with other ladies in same day. I understand that you use a simple common phrase for invitation but this can be taken as a rude behaviour.

When a lady is preparing for a date, she’s spending about 2 hours tomake her look more attractive for you – dress, heels,make-up, hairstyle etc.
In a T-shirt and running shoes she can go only to a shop to buy food and home stuff but you will never see her on a date like this..
So if you will say “Let’s meet for a coffee” it means you’re looking for a short and cheap meeting. It will be taken as a you don’t respect her efforts.

Better invite her for a dinner in her favourite place. She will be glad that your intention is more serious and you going to spend minimum 2 hours together.

If you will be invited to a home of some Ukrainian family you will see that Ukrainian people are very hospitable.

As I’ve alreadymentioned,a lady will be looking good and attractive on a date.
So you have to spend some time on your own appearance as well.
You can’t come wearing a T-shirt and running shoes or flip-flops as well, because it can ruin your date.

By the way, you’ll never pass any face control at any Kiev night club wearing running shoes or flip-flops. You need to wear nice shoes and a shirt.

Ukrainian lady is neither rushing up the carrier ladder nor competing with men. She doesn’t fight for independence from her husband. She’s loving, kind and sexy with a smile on her face. So if you are dreaming to have classy woman you should be a classy man yes.

Ask which places she likes to go, wear nice clothes, bring her flowers,open a door in front of her at restaurant or in car... Help her to take off her jacket when you’re taking your places at restaurant.. It is so romantic.. She will remember all these things you did for her. She will like you and she will be waiting to meet you again. You will be her Knight :)
(About the flowers -only odd number in Ukraine, because we bring even number of flowers to the funeral or when visiting the grave)

How to avoid fake accounts and gold diggers?
Is it possible to find a good lady online and how you can find HER?
All answer all these questions in my next post.

Your Professional Dating Coach.

P.S. Don’t give up on finding your dream woman!

How to find a good girl ? Methods and mistakes

When you’re living out of Ukraine you have limited options of meeting a Ukrainian lady. If you will see Ukrainian lady across the street or flying with her to the same destination it is quite impossible of knowing her basic details like education, age, marital status, hobbies etc The era of internet has made every thing possible and have increased our chances of finding a lovely Ukrainian bride to become your life partner.

With opportunities there comes challenges as well, like heartless spammers who give true colours to your dream and write you long letters as if you know them since last life.

Finding the right picture is not the challenge but finding a real person is like unending loop with plethora of non-serious and unavailable ladies, which eventually makes you frustrated in your quest for right partner.

In all matrimonial sites you will find profiles with professional photographs and other profiles with natural/casual pictures of a ladies .

Most men has been found to be approaching profiles only with professionally crafted pictures but it is quite essential to filter your criteria before you approach a lady or accosted by one.

I can confidently conclude that most of the beautiful, family oriented ladies don’t use professional seductive photographs to entice the life partners.

It doesn’t mean they can’t do but they are concerned about the impression which will be reflected in their profile. The ladies firmly believe to upload natural photographs so they can be approached by a humble family oriented person who is looking for an educated caring mother for his kids.
This implies that they preserve their beauty for their husband and not for online dwellers.

There are another category of ladies who are quite ambitious and they show their taste through professional photographs and exquisite sense of dressing. They behave like queens and they expect to be treated in the same manner.

Moreover, the beauty of Ukraine has often been exploited by scammers as they attract all men. Sometimes romantic emails can be copied and checked online to verify if it has been written especially for you or another scammed mail for your inbox.

There are many forums/websites like,, which can be used for online verification and share experiences with others researchers.

I strongly advice to interact with ladies with natural & simple photos as they are easy going, honest and not running after material world but a loving husband and cozy home.
When you will invite them for Skype conference (video calls) then you will be quite surprised after admiring the real beauty online.

How to create your account correct in order any ladies from dating website writ you back.
What are mistakes you do in your online profile ?

This is advice will tell you in my next posts

Your Professional Dating Coach.